Finding out you’re pregnant when you weren’t expecting it can feel overwhelming, and it’s normal to have a lot of emotions and questions. You may be thinking about abortion or wondering what other options are available.
Having an honest conversation with your partner is an essential step toward understanding how you both feel and deciding what comes next. Reach out today to schedule a confidential appointment if you’d like help navigating this important conversation.
Here are some ways to make the conversation with your partner more open and supportive:
1. Be Honest About How You Feel
It can be hard to share the news about your pregnancy, especially if you’re unsure how your partner will react. Take a deep breath and express your feelings, as well as how you’d like to proceed.
Be clear about what’s on your mind and what kind of support you need. Honesty helps set the tone for a thoughtful, productive discussion.
2. Listen Without Judgment
Your partner may also need time to process the news and his feelings. Try to listen without interrupting or assuming what he’ll say.
Listening closely and without pressure can help you both feel heard and respected, which builds trust for whatever decision comes next.
3. Explore Every Option Together
Abortion isn’t the only option. While they may not have been your first thoughts, parenting and adoption are also viable options, each with its own unique considerations. Make sure you talk through what each path might look like for your relationship, finances, and future plans. If you are in a serious relationship, you may be surprised to learn what your partner’s dreams are and how a pregnancy might be part of them.
4. Pause Before Deciding
You don’t have to make a choice immediately. Give yourselves space and time to think and process every option. It may help to write down questions or concerns and revisit them later when emotions feel more settled.
It can also be helpful to discuss your pregnancy and options with a third party like a trusted counselor, friend, or parents. Think about who you both trust and consider inviting that person into your conversations for a different perspective.
5. Get Reliable Information Together
Nothing is more powerful or bonding than making a big decision together through vulnerability. Before making any decision, it’s important to confirm your pregnancy with a pregnancy test and learn how far along you are through an ultrasound. These services can help you understand your options and what steps are available to you.
At Women’s Resource Center of Hancock County, you can schedule a free, confidential appointment to receive a pregnancy test, a limited OB ultrasound, and information on all your options—including abortion, adoption, and parenting. Our caring team provides a safe space for you and your partner to ask questions and explore what’s right for you.
Schedule your free appointment today.